It hit me yesterday that I have 60 days until my wedding. And I have a sneaking suspicion that my wedding dress isn’t going to zip up if I try it on.
I’ve told you how much I hate tracking my eating and exercising–it feels like dieting, and dieting has been responsible for most of the negative feelings I have towards food and my body.
But let’s face it, folks: I need my wedding dress to zip on my wedding day. And for this reason (and really no other), I’m counting calories. I’m using measuring cups to eat a bowl of cereal. I’m logging into a tracking app on my phone every time I eat a bite. It’s a little like torture, but if it’ll work for the next 60 days, I’m okay with sacrificing a little of my dignity.
Another reason I’ve grown to hate tracking my food is that it forces me to focus on numbers. And despite my recent penchant for solving systems of equations for no reason at all, I’m not a numbers girl. Numbers don’t mean anything to me. And sometimes, they shouldn’t mean anything to me.
Granted, sometimes paying attention to numbers is really important. If I’m not aware that I’m eating 4,000 calories daily, with 75% of those calories coming from processed, fake foods, then that’s a problem, and tracking is a great way to figure out where your nutrition is coming from.
But a lot of the time, numbers don’t mean anything. When I step on a scale, that number doesn’t mean a whole lot. When I’ve got three pairs of pants in vastly different sizes, but each of them fits perfectly, that number on the label becomes ridiculously valueless.
But most of the time, to me, numbers become a marker of my failures. I ate 43 more carbs than I should have. FAIL. I ate on target all week, but the number on the scale isn’t moving downward! DESPERATION! I didn’t measure how many servings of pasta primavera I ate for lunch; now I don’t know how much I ate today and the whole week’s numbers are off. IT’S ALL OVER! Looking at numbers causes me to overlook all the other things happening with my body. That scale refuses to move, and suddenly I’m not thinking about how much more energy I have. I forget write down a meal, and I don’t care anymore that the food I’m eating is fresh, full of nutrients, and building my body to be strong for another day.
So I need your help, people. I’m tracking because I have to–I have a goal (to zip up my dress! yikes!), and tracking is going to help me reach that goal. But I need you to help me keep it real. To help me keep my focus on what’s really important. To not get caught up in the numbers or the mind games they play with me.